So what story are you writing with your life right now? What’s your genre? Are you into action, or is this a romance, an epic, a chaotic comedy or a pristine period piece?
If you are not sure what your story is then look for clues in the lives of the people closest to you. If your partner is writing a romance then hopefully you are writing one as well. If you are surrounded by people who are constantly laughing… good chance you are in the middle of a comedy.
Everyone is writing a story… the type of story depends on you.